Why can sex hurt post-bottom surgery and what c...
Why can sex hurt post-bottom surgery and what can you do about it? We talked to Dr. Gladys Ng, a board certified urologist with a special focus on ...
Because endometriosis can cause everything from abdominal tenderness to bloating to bladder problems to deep pelvic pain, it’s super common for people with endo to experience pain during sex.
Why can sex hurt post-bottom surgery and what c...
Why can sex hurt post-bottom surgery and what can you do about it? We talked to Dr. Gladys Ng, a board certified urologist with a special focus on ...
The mind is our biggest sex organ — but it’s no...
The mind is our biggest sex organ — but it’s not always so easy to get it to play nicely. Working mindfulness into your sex practice will help keep...
In the case of painful sex, there’s one super s...
In the case of painful sex, there’s one super simple, very affordable, incredibly accessible answer to so many problems: Personal lubricant. Lube, ...
Can Taking Testosterone Cause Painful Sex?
Pain during sex is, unfortunately, really commo...
Pain during sex is, unfortunately, really common for people with vaginas and vulvas, whether they’re cisgender women or they are transgender or non...
Being a new parent is tough. While it’s a time ...
Being a new parent is tough. While it’s a time of wonder and excitement as you get to know this new, small person—it can come with some challenges ...
Will Having Sex Hurt My Baby? And Other Pregnancy Sex Myths
Myths? Busted!
Myths? Busted!
5 Best Sex Positions for Pregnancy
While there are plenty of tips out there for ge...
While there are plenty of tips out there for getting pregnant, there seems to be a lot less info about having sex when you’re pregnant. But what’s ...
Experiencing painful sex during pregnancy is an...
Experiencing painful sex during pregnancy is an all-too-common experience. Anywhere from 10-69% of pregnant people experience pain during vaginal i...
The mainstreaming of 'purity culture' and its effects on generations
When Eric,* 40, turned 13, his dad gave him a p...
When Eric,* 40, turned 13, his dad gave him a purity ring.
Religious Trauma + Painful Sex
One of the most common ways folks are shamed in...
One of the most common ways folks are shamed in religion is through sexuality—even if someone is comfortable having sex, there's a massive likeliho...
Can sexual trauma cause painful sex?
The aftereffects of an assault can last way bey...
The aftereffects of an assault can last way beyond the assault itself. And while every survivor is different, one of those effects may be pain duri...
Vaginismus is a condition that can cause a lott...
Vaginismus is a condition that can cause a lotta strife in the bedroom. But what is it? And why does it happen?
Getting an endometriosis diagnosis—or even susp...
Getting an endometriosis diagnosis—or even suspecting you have it—can feel really scary. But it’s important to know that there are treatment option...
Let’s take a look at orgasms and endometriosis....
Let’s take a look at orgasms and endometriosis. What’s going on? And is it possible for people in pain to find relief?
5 Best Sex Positions for People with Endometriosis
While each person’s pain and experience is uniq...
While each person’s pain and experience is unique to them, there are some general tips that can help reduce (or even eliminate) pain during sex. He...
7 Ways to Get Sexy—Without Penetration
Penetrative sex isn’t always on the table. Be i...
Penetrative sex isn’t always on the table. Be it because of pain, stress, chronic illness, you name it—it’s okay if your play doesn’t include penet...
The 5 Best Stretches for Painful Sex
Pain during sex happens for a lot of reasons. O...
Pain during sex happens for a lot of reasons. One of the usual suspects is high tone in the pelvic floor. Stretching and pelvic floor muscle awaren...
Big dick energy: The history of the big dick Pt. III
If Europeans were into smaller penises for lite...
If Europeans were into smaller penises for literal centuries—why are so obsessed with big dicks in the United States these days?
Painful Sex: Is the Cervix to Blame?
Today’s all about unmasking the culprit behind ...
Today’s all about unmasking the culprit behind painful sex—is it the cervix… or something else?
I'm Not Ovary-Acting Pt. II: Pelvic Health in the Doctor’s Office
What does the research say is happening in doct...
What does the research say is happening in doctor’s offices and what’s their sexual health training like? Let’s get into it.
I'm Not Ovary-Acting Pt. I: The Results
Studies tell a grim tale: healthcare profession...
Studies tell a grim tale: healthcare professionals provide worse care to women and people with vaginas simply because of their gender or their bodi...
Dicks of the stone age: The history of the big dick Pt. II
Now that we're gotten a handle on current theor...
Now that we're gotten a handle on current theories about why humans developed larger penises in the first place—let's flip over the ol' sandglass a...
Is bigger really better? The history of the big dick Pt. I
At The Pelvic People, we are intimately aware o...
At The Pelvic People, we are intimately aware of the realities of painful sex—and the myths too. When we look at how people on the internet typical...
Have fun in your lovin’ with a bun in the oven!
Have fun in your lovin’ with a bun in the oven!
by Allison Danish, MPH Anal sex! It’s happening...
by Allison Danish, MPH Anal sex! It’s happening aaaall around us. And has probably been happening since the dawn of buttholes—just look at this pot...
What to Expect at Your 6-8 Week Postpartum Visit
Ahhhh, the postpartum visit. You’ve had a baby ...
Ahhhh, the postpartum visit. You’ve had a baby and now you’re back at the doc’s office 6 weeks later. But why is it important? And what can you exp...
It started with a pandemic. As confusing and de...
It started with a pandemic. As confusing and devastating as it was, it was also a time to get creative.
The 12 Names of Ohnut, in SONG
A festive celebration of moderately inappropria...
A festive celebration of moderately inappropriate Ohnut nicknames.
Lack of Diversity in Healthcare Professions, Explained Pt. III
By the 8th grade, the wealthiest (top 10% house...
By the 8th grade, the wealthiest (top 10% household income) students are 3 to 4 years ahead of the poorest (bottom 10% of household income) students.
Lack of Diversity in Healthcare Professions, Explained Pt. II
In 56 of the US's largest cities, your zip code...
In 56 of the US's largest cities, your zip code can mean a 20-30 year difference in how long you live.
Lack of Diversity in Healthcare Professions, Explained Pt. I
There are many reasons these issues persist for...
There are many reasons these issues persist for BIPOC in healthcare, and an important piece of this puzzle resides in a lack of culturally competen...
Health Disparities: The Intersection of Race and Sexuality
Queer BIPOC are one of the most at-risk groups,...
Queer BIPOC are one of the most at-risk groups, with the least research dedicated to helping them.
Are Kegels Sexist? How Cardi B & Megan Thee Stallion's 'WAP' Tells a Cultural Story
Is WAP (“wet ass pussy”) a feminist anthem? Yes...
Is WAP (“wet ass pussy”) a feminist anthem? Yes. Do Cardi and Meg talk about kegels in a sexual context? Why, yes. Yes, they do. And that’s why we’...
The Racist History of Gynecology
by Allison Danish, MPH J. Marion Sims, the "fa...
by Allison Danish, MPH J. Marion Sims, the "father of modern gynecology," gained his title by performing unanesthetized surgical experiments on en...
The History of Medicine and Black Pain
This company was founded in frustration with a ...
This company was founded in frustration with a healthcare system that largely ignores and actively silences the voices of the marginalized — and we...
Weird Ways to Play + Connect During Quarantine
While things are starting to open back up, it’s...
While things are starting to open back up, it’s still important to keep distance. Hang in there!
What To Do if Your Partnership Is Challenging in Quarantine
It's a universal truth that the ones who know u...
It's a universal truth that the ones who know us best can push our buttons the most. Throw in a global pandemic, and tensions can rise.
DIY Photo Shoot in Isolation with Emily
When there's a global pandemic, photoshoots go ...
When there's a global pandemic, photoshoots go DIY.
How to Survive Cohabitating with a Partner for the First Time During Quarantine
Couples look forward to so many things when the...
Couples look forward to so many things when they think about living with one another…being trapped with your partner under quarantine during a glob...
What to Do if Sex Hurts While in Isolation With a Partner
When sex doesn't always feel great, being stuck...
When sex doesn't always feel great, being stuck inside with a partner & told that everyone is having more sex than ever can be... well, a chall...
Boogie down with yourself (or your household or...
Boogie down with yourself (or your household or your friends via Google Hangout)!
How Kissing Like a Dog Can Change Your Sex Life
Sometimes sex can be daunting or a sticky point...
Sometimes sex can be daunting or a sticky point in relationships. Smooching like a pooch takes the pressure off.
10 Weird Ways to Show Your Partner You Care
Contrary to what every show on the CW would hav...
Contrary to what every show on the CW would have you believe, romantic relationships aren’t just about sex—and sex isn’t the only way to be intimate.
5 Ways to Tell Your Partner Sex is Uncomfortable—During Sex
There are tons of valid reasons why people are ...
There are tons of valid reasons why people are hesitant to speak up—but there are also plenty of good reasons to mention it.
5 Reasons Why People Don’t Tell Their Partners Sex is Uncomfortable—During Sex
Ever kept quiet during sex when something felt ...
Ever kept quiet during sex when something felt a little off because you didn’t want to ruin the moment? Us too.
Back by popular demand! The remix. On the firs...
Back by popular demand! The remix. On the first day of Ohnut, my true love gave to me...
How to Talk to Your Partner About Painful Sex
It’ll never feel convenient—but you’re a hum...
It’ll never feel convenient—but you’re a human being and you’re not “supposed” to be convenient. In the end, a supportive partner (you know, one...
Sexual Wellness Spotlight: Dipsea
It’s exciting times in the growing world of sex...
It’s exciting times in the growing world of sexual health—from empowering wearable vibrators to vagina-friendly lubes to squishy communication-star...
The Philadelphia Trans Wellness Conference
I heard my dad say “penis” for the first time e...
I heard my dad say “penis” for the first time ever at the Philadelphia Trans(gender) Wellness Conference.
Fibroids: Why the System Fails Black Women
From quality of life impact to unethical insura...
From quality of life impact to unethical insurance coverage practices to racism, fibroids don’t receive nearly the attention they deserve.