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Painful Sex Gift Guides

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Something For Every Body

The Pleasure-Curious Explorer

Excited to try something new—but wants something approachable, not intimidating. Gift beginner-friendly, gentle ways to explore pleasure without feeling overwhelmed.
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Kiwi vibrating pelvic floor massager in box by The Pelvic People
Kiwi

311 reviews
1,000+ bought in past month
Multipurpose, vibrating pelvic massager that makes progress feel good. Like, really good.
$115.00 For Entry
Rumble Bundle

959 reviews
200+ bought in past month
All the squishy, stretchy, stackability of Ohnut Buffer Rings, now with a vibrating cherry on top.
$105.00 $130.00 For Deep
Playdate conversation cards for couples — 50+ intimacy prompts laid flat
Playdate

5 reviews
100+ bought in past month
A card deck for curious couples
$25.00

The Connection-First Couple

Exploring sex outside penetration and ready to deepen chemistry. They want to strengthen their bond, and enjoy playful, connected moments.
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Playdate conversation cards for couples — 50+ intimacy prompts laid flat
Playdate

5 reviews
100+ bought in past month
A card deck for curious couples
$25.00
The Complete Package bundle — Ohnut, Kiwi, Vibrating Ring, lube, and storage
The Complete Package

1306 reviews
 
Get everything you need for more comfortable sex :)
$225.00 $275.00 Best Value Bundle

The Sensitive-Skin Minimalist

Clean, gentle, fragrance-free, pH-balanced everything only. They value products that are simple, safe, and soothing for sensitive skin, avoiding unnecessary additives or strong scents.
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Oh Naturale organic aloe lubricant bottle by The Pelvic People
Oh Naturale Organic Aloe Lube

19 reviews
230+ bought in past month
Harness the power of plants with this velvety smooth and long-lasting aloe-based lubricant.
From $15.00
Kiwi Essentials Bundle — massager, 2 lubes, and cleanser
Kiwi Essentials Bundle

311 reviews
 
Everything you need to get started with Kiwi.
$130.00 $160.00 Best Selling Bundle
Foam OH plant-based foam cleanser bottle by The Pelvic People
Foam OH Plant-Based Foam Cleanser

11 reviews
 
Plant-based and made with organic ingredients.
$15.00

The Long-Distance Lover

Whether traveling or in separate cities, they want ways to stay connected, playful, and intimate even when apart.
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Rumble Bundle

959 reviews
200+ bought in past month
All the squishy, stretchy, stackability of Ohnut Buffer Rings, now with a vibrating cherry on top.
$105.00 $130.00 For Deep
Playdate conversation cards for couples — 50+ intimacy prompts laid flat
Playdate

5 reviews
100+ bought in past month
A card deck for curious couples
$25.00

The Postpartum Warrior

Rebuilding comfort, working through tension, and easing back into sex one gentle step at a time. They’re navigating their body’s changes postpartum, seeking comfort, gentle pleasure, and tools to restore confidence in intimacy.
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Kiwi and Ohnut starter pack — pelvic massager plus depth-limiting rings bundle
Kiwi + Ohnut Starter Pack

1191 reviews
250+ bought in past month
Vibrating pelvic relaxation massager meets a squishy, 4-ring buffer.
$160.00 $190.00 Bundle Discount
The Complete Package bundle — Ohnut, Kiwi, Vibrating Ring, lube, and storage
The Complete Package

1306 reviews
 
Get everything you need for more comfortable sex :)
$225.00 $275.00 Best Value Bundle

The Vulva-Positive Pal

Bold, funny, proudly sex-positive energy. They embrace body positivity, love humor and camp, and enjoy gifts that celebrate vulvas and sexuality unapologetically.
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Smart Cookie canvas tote bag by The Pelvic People
Smart Cookie Tote Bag
 
Got a passion for pelvic health? Let the world know you're one smart cookie 🍪
$25.00
Oh Naturale organic aloe lubricant bottle by The Pelvic People
Oh Naturale Organic Aloe Lube

19 reviews
230+ bought in past month
Harness the power of plants with this velvety smooth and long-lasting aloe-based lubricant.
From $15.00
Playdate conversation cards for couples — 50+ intimacy prompts laid flat
Playdate

5 reviews
100+ bought in past month
A card deck for curious couples
$25.00

The Pelvic Floor Therapy Newbie

Starting PT, tackling tension, learning about shallow insertion & relaxation.They’re learning how to release pelvic tension, explore safe pleasure, and support their therapy journey with gentle, guided tools.
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Kiwi Essentials Bundle — massager, 2 lubes, and cleanser
Kiwi Essentials Bundle

311 reviews
 
Everything you need to get started with Kiwi.
$130.00 $160.00 Best Selling Bundle
Kiwi vibrating pelvic floor massager in box by The Pelvic People
Kiwi

311 reviews
1,000+ bought in past month
Multipurpose, vibrating pelvic massager that makes progress feel good. Like, really good.
$115.00 For Entry

The Menopause Champion

Hot flashes, vaginal dryness, and brain fog—oh my! Help them out with a few of their symptoms with these tools for gentle massage and lubrication.
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Smart Cookie canvas tote bag by The Pelvic People
Smart Cookie Tote Bag
 
Got a passion for pelvic health? Let the world know you're one smart cookie 🍪
$25.00
Oh Naturale organic aloe lubricant bottle by The Pelvic People
Oh Naturale Organic Aloe Lube

19 reviews
230+ bought in past month
Harness the power of plants with this velvety smooth and long-lasting aloe-based lubricant.
From $15.00
Playdate conversation cards for couples — 50+ intimacy prompts laid flat
Playdate

5 reviews
100+ bought in past month
A card deck for curious couples
$25.00